89. Now plainly I speak, for I have seen both; unfaithful is man to
maid; we speak them fairest when thoughts are falsest and deception
the wisest of hearts.
Men, generally, are not completely honest with women and will usually
deceive them to get what they want. However, this can also be said of
some women. Always consider the context of things stated in a
conversation. What does the speaker really want?
90. He should speak soft words and offer wealth who longs for a
woman's love, praise the shape of the shining maid -- he wins who
thus doth woo.
Financial stability, kindness and compliments are the best things to attract
women with. This can be said of both sexes.
91. -- Never a bit should one blame another whom love hath brought
into bonds: often a witching form will fetch the wise which holds not
the heart of fools.
Don’t cast shame on others for falling in love. It even happens to the
wise.
92. Never a bit should one blame another for a folly which many
befalls; the might of love makes sons of men into fools who once were
wise.
Love can make anyone act foolishly, regardless of how wise they are.
93. The mind knows alone what is nearest the heart and sees where
the soul is turned: no sickness seems to the wise so sore as in naught to
know content.
Evaluate your feelings about your relationship to determine if you are
happy with it, because it is no fun being in a relationship if you are not
truly happy.